Reverse rizz is when all the wrong types of people are attracted to you. Inverse rizz is when the only people interested in you are sucked into a tiny attractor basin. Negative rizz is when people are so repulsed by the things you say that they are captivated by you.
Comment I received on twitter here.
Expanding on that so it makes sense to me: Trump, and in general people with edgy opinions who are somewhat charismatic, has negative rizz, which is why so many people talk about him even if they hate him. The thing to note is that haters rarely have a strategy about what they spend their time on, and therefore often reinforce the very same thing they pretend to hate by simply talking about it so much.
Inverse rizz is when the people who like you are heavily filtered by a variety of factors—for instance consciousness and integrity, a combination which is rather rare these days—such that you feel like no one likes you. It might not be true at all, but who you appeal to might be so rare in your environment that you feel unlovable.
And then reverse rizz is what is behind cult dynamics for instance, people who worship you instead of listening to you and leading their own life, or dating the people who make you miserable and being weirdly attracted to them.
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